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背十字架

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Collocation

1
十字架由谁来背
2
背上生活的十字架
3
背着沉重的十字架

Definition

背十字架:

Literally means:

be crucified; be tormented

Actually means:

It means suffering the torment of pains or disasters, usually from taking heavy burdens or responsibilities.

遭受苦难和痛苦的折磨。多指承担沉重的责任或负担。

Example

Used as predicate or attributive and can have other words in between. It can also be used in an inverted order. (作谓语、定语等,中间常插入别的词语,也可倒装)
1
yīn
qīn
母亲
tóng
同意
ér
méi
néng
自己
shēnài
深爱
de
rén
女人
jiéhūn
结婚
  
,
jiēguǒ
结果
zhǐnéng
只能
自己
bēi
背负
shuāngchóng
双重
de
shíjià
十字架
  

He was unable to marry the woman he loved because his mother did not agree, only to carry a double cross himself.

2
Suǒwèi
所谓
shéntóng
神童
  
,
shuōchuān
说穿
le
  
,
fēi
无非
shì
jiāzhǎng
家长
wèile
为了
mǎn
满足
自己
de
róngxīn
虚荣心
  
,
ràng
háizi
孩子
guòzǎo
过早
bēishàng
背上
shēnghuó
生活
de
shíjià
十字架
  

The so-called "prodigy", said to wear, nothing but parents in order to meet their vanity, let children prematurely carry the cross of life.

3
Zhè
cháng
zāinàn
灾难
shǐ
使
hěn
shāngxīn
伤心
  
,
dàn
wàibiǎo
外表
极其
lěngjìng
冷静
  
,
méiyǒu
没有
其他
zuìrén
罪人
shēn
bēi
shíjià
十字架
zhī
gǎn
  
,
gěi
liúxià
留下
le
shēn
深刻
de
yìnxiàng
印象
  

The disaster made her very sad, but she looked extremely calm, no other sense of sin to carry the cross, I was deeply impressed.