Correct
又当爹又当妈
/ yòu dāng diē yòu dāng mā /
Strokes
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Collocation
1
又当爹又当妈的男人
2
只好/只能/只有又当爹又当妈
3
是又当爹又当妈
4
……又当爹又当妈
Definition
又当爹又当妈:
Literally means:
be both the mother and the father
Actually means:
bear all parental responsibilities
mother or a father has to take the responsibility of both the parents. In a metaphorical sense, it refers to the hardship a parent experiences to bring up the child. It is often used to describe a single parent family.
父亲或母亲一个人要承担父母的全部责任，比喻一个家长抚养孩子的艰辛。常用于单亲家庭中。
Example
Used as predicate or object, and can have the character Lai in between. (作谓语、宾语，中间可以插入“来”)
1
Lǎowáng
老王
qīzǐ
妻子
qùshì
去世
de
得
zǎo
早
,
tā
他
yòu
又
dāng
当
diē
爹
yòu
又
dāng
当
mā
妈
,
hǎobùróngyì
好不容易
bǎ
把
érzi
儿子
fǔyǎng
抚养
chéngrén
成人
。
Lao Wang's wife died early, he beed a father and a mother, it is not easy to raise his son as an adult.
2
Zài
在
línjū
邻居
de
的
yǎnlǐ
眼里
,
máomíng
毛明
yìng
应
shì
是
gè
个
yòu
又
dāng
当
diē
爹
yòu
又
dāng
当
mā
妈
de
的
nánrén
男人
:
zǎoshang
早上
chūgōng
出工
qù
去
,
huílai
回来
jiāwùhuó
家务活
yīshǒu
一手
quán
全
bāo
包
xià
下
。
In the eyes of the neighbors, Mao Ming should be a father and mother of the man: go out of work in the morning, come back to the housework all-inclusive.
3
Qīzǐ
妻子
hé
和
tā
他
lí
离
le
了
hūn
婚
,
tā
他
zhǐhǎo
只好
yòu
又
dāng
当
diē
爹
lái
来
yòu
又
dāng
当
niáng
娘
,
měitiān
每天
jì
既
yào
要
gōngzuò
工作
,
yòu
又
yào
要
zhàogu
照顾
háizi
孩子
。
His wife and he divorced, he had to be a father and a mother, every day to work, but also to take care of the children.