嫁出的女儿泼出去的水
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嫁出的女儿泼出去的水:
Literally means:
a married-off daughter is like poured-out water; a married daughter is no more a member of her parents" householdActually means:
It means a married daughter is like poured-out water. That is, once a daughter is married off, she is no more a member of her parents" family.
It usually connotes that once a daughter get married, he parents would take her as an outsider and they would not care about her life in her in-law's family and would refuse to get her involved in her parents" business.
It also means that once a person (thing) leaves his unit, he will have nothing to do with this unit, so the unit does not have to take care of his needs or it may not be able to control him.
出嫁了的女儿就像泼出去的水一样。指女儿出嫁了,就不再是自家人了。多用来说明女儿出嫁以后,娘家就把她当成外人看待,既不关心她在夫家的情况,也不让她过问或参与娘家的事情。
比喻人或事物离开所属的单位,这个单位就与其毫不相干了,因而没有继续照管或帮助的责任,或者完全无法掌控了。
Example
Second-hand car is like a married daughter, splashed out of the water, the seller sold it after nothing, quality problems can only be bought by the people themselves responsible. It's settled.
Borrow money to give people to be careful ah! When you meet someone who doesn't speak credit, the money borrowed is equivalent to marrying your daughter and splashing out the water, which you can't get back anyway. of the
Now students graduate, like a married daughter, splash out the water, you have any difficulties the school will not care.
Nowadays, there are many people in the countryside who have not changed the old idea of marrying their daughter and splashing out the water, Refuse to let the married daughter participate in the family affairs.
A married daughter is not a splash of water, and according to the law, a daughter also has the right to inherit property.
Xiaohua was abused by her husband, back to her mother's house to complain, her father actually said: "marry out of the daughter, splashed out of the water, your life is not good, complain that your life is not good, we can not care." ”