有了婆家，忘了娘家

有了婆家，忘了娘家:

Literally means:

estrange from her parents when a married woman moved to her husband's home

Actually means:

婆家, husband's home; Niangjia, the married woman's parents' home.

The idiom means that a married woman seldom goes back to her parents and is thus less intimate with them.

In a metaphorical sense, it means estranging from one's old friends or relatives after he/she moves to another better place. Showing satisfaction. Derogatory.

婆家，丈夫的家;娘家，已婚女子的父母的家。

有了婆家，忘了娘家，指女子结婚后很少回娘家，不再像以前那样亲近自己的父母。

比喻到了新的、更好的地方以后，疏远了原来地方的亲友。含有不满的意思。具有贬义色彩。