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不男不女

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Collocation

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不男不女的打扮
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不男不女的样子
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发型不男不女
4
有点儿不男不女
5
真是不男不女
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看起来不男不女

Definition

不男不女:

Literally means:

neither manlike nor ladylike

Actually means:

It means that one behaves or dresses neither like a man nor like a lady, implying that his orientation of makeup, speech or dealing with things is aberrant. It connotes a sense of disgust or criticism. Derogatory.

既不像男人,又不像女人。指男人或女人在打 扮、说话、做事等方面的风格偏离社会公认的一般标准,混淆男女之间的界限。含厌恶或批 评指责的意味。具有贬义色彩。

Example

Used as attributive or object. (作定语、宾语)
1
men
我们
jiā
shi
yuàn
戏院
chǎng
剧场
  
,
zhèxiē
这些
rén
nán
  
,
个个
ban
打扮
de
guàiguài
怪里怪气
de
  
,
zěnme
怎么
可以
men
他们
lǐngdào
领到
jiā
家里
lái
ne
  
?

Our family is not a theater, these people are not men or women, dressed strangely, how can you bring them to the house?

2
Yǒude
有的
lǎorén
老人
kànbuguàn
看不惯
xiē
一些
nán
de
suǒwèi
所谓
shíshàng
时尚
xiānfēng
先锋
  
,
rènwéi
认为
zhè
shì
zhǒng
wénmíng
文明
de
biǎoxiàn
表现
  

Some old people are not used to some of the so-called "fashion pioneers" who are not men or women, think that this is also an uncivilized performance.

3
妻子
hūn
离婚
hòu
  
,
rén
zhàogu
照顾
háizi
孩子
  
,
yào
zuò
ba
爸爸
  
,
yòu
yào
zuò
ma
妈妈
  
,
kāiwánxiào
开玩笑
shuō
自己
kuài
chéng
nán
le
  

After his divorce from his wife, a man who took care of the children, both as a father and as a mother, joked that he was about to become a man or a woman.