枕边风

枕边风:

Literally means:

talk

Actually means:

枕, the pillow.

This phrase means words said over the pillow.

It figuratively means the wife giving advice or opinions to her husband and requesting him to accept them, usually used to imply that the wife persuades the husband to do things that are forbidden. Usually derogatory.

枕，。

枕边风，枕头边上说的话。比喻妻子向丈夫提出对某些事情的看法并要求丈夫接受。多指妻子说服丈夫做不该做的事。多具有贬义色彩。