拒人于千里之外

拒人于千里之外

Literally means:

keep people a thousand miles away

Actually means:

reject downright

It means keeping people a thousand miles away. It describes arrogance, downright refusal or utterly no room for negotiation. It is often expressed in aloofness, rejection or refusal to contact or negotiate with others. It also means rejecting others'criticism or help. Usually derogatory.

在千里之外就把人挡住。形容态度傲慢，坚决拒绝别人，或毫无商量余地。常表现为对人冷淡或排斥，不愿意和人接触或商谈，拒绝别人的批评或帮助。多具有贬义色彩。