恭敬不如从命

恭敬不如从命

Literally means:

obedience is better than politeness

Actually means:

obedience is a better way of showing respect than outward reverence

从命 means obeying the command or being docile.

This phrase means being obedient to others'will is better than showing politeness or outward respect. It is often used as formulae when accepting others' invitation or gifts.

从命，服从命令，顺从。

恭敬不如从命，与其对人尊敬讲礼貌，不如顺从他的意愿。常在接受别人的邀请或礼物时说的客气话。