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好说歹说

/ hǎo shuō dǎi shuō /
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Collocation

1
好说歹说才……
2
虽然跟……好说歹说,(结果)还是……
3
跟某人好说歹说,终于……

Definition

好说歹说:

Literally means:

try every possible way to persuade

Actually means:

歹, bad, used with hao to mean both the positive and the negative sides of a thing.

The phrase means reasoning by presenting both advantages and disadvantages; or to request or persuade somebody to do something again and again.

歹,坏,用来跟“好”一起表示正反两方面。好说歹说,指从正反两方面说明各种理由,向对方反复提出请求或劝告。

Example

Used as predicate. (作谓语)
1
Jīng
jiā
大家
hǎoshuōdǎishuō
好说歹说
  
,
qīn
母亲
cái
ying
答应
zhùyuàn
住院
zhìliáo
治疗
  

After everyone said, the mother agreed to hospital treatment.

2
men
我们
gēn
jǐngchá
警察
hǎoshuōdǎishuō
好说歹说
  
,
shì
可是
jiàshǐ
驾驶
zhízhào
执照
háishi
还是
bèi
kòuliú
扣留
le
  

We talked to the police, but the driver's license was still in custody.

3
men
我们
hǎoshuōdǎishuō
好说歹说
  
,
kǒushuǐ
口水
dōu
shuō
gàn
le
  
,
jiùjiu
舅舅
cái
kěn
ràng
men
我们
xiōng
兄弟
liǎ
de
tuōchē
摩托车
shàngjiē
上街
  

Let's talk, talk about it all, uncle will let our brothers ride his motorcycle on the street.