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想开

/ xiǎngkāi /
Strokes

Definition

to get over (a shock, bereavement etc)/to avoid dwelling on unpleasant things/to accept the situation and move on

Example

As a Verb

be philosophical about; succeed in getting over a loss or misfortune; stop worrying; not take sth to heart; look on sth bad as a blessing in disguise; think sth through and not feel depressed

1
Zhè
shì
yào
xiǎngkāi
想开
diǎn
  

Don't take it to heart.

2
Yào
xiǎng
kāi
diǎn
  

Try to look on the bright side of things.

3
wàng
希望
xiǎngkāi
想开
diǎn
  
,
kuài
快乐
shēnghuó
生活
  

I wish he'd just relax and enjoy life.

4
Shuāngfāng
双方
dōu
yīnggāi
应该
xiǎngkāi
想开
diǎn
  

It would be better if both sides could be broad-minded.

5
guǒ
如果
shībài
失败
le
  
,
yīnggāi
应该
xiǎngkāi
想开
xiē
一些
  
,
yào
不要
něi
气馁
  

You've just got to be a bit philosophical if you fail, and try not to be discouraged.