Correct

不即不离

/ bù jí bù lí /
Strokes

Definition

to be neither too familiar nor too distant/to keep sb at arm's length

Example

Definition

be neither intimate nor distant; keep sb at arm's length; maintain a discreet distance

1
duì
suǒyǒu
所有
de
rén
dōu
  
,
guānxi
关系
dōu
hái
可以
  

He keeps the right distance from people and gets along with everyone.

2
guò
过去
de
péngyou
朋友
bǎochí
保持
de
guānxi
关系

preserve tenuous links with one's former friends

3
Bǎochí
保持
de
guānxi
关系

keep a neither-too-close-nor-too-distant relationship with sb; keep sb at arm's length